The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex

The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex

Stephen E. Goldstone

Language: English

Pages: 288

ISBN: 0440508460

Format: PDF / Kindle (mobi) / ePub


Finally--the book for every gay man's bedside table.

At last! Answers to the questions you're too embarrassed to ask--but always wanted to know!

Why does it hurt down there?  Is it really safe to do that?    What does it mean when something looks like this--and how do I make it go away?

Chances are you never learned anything about gay intimacy from your parents, your school, or your family physician.  Here, at last, is reliable, comprehensive information on a wide spectrum of gay medical concerns, written by an eminent surgeon and recognized authority on gay health issues.

With up-to-date facts, interviews, and case studies from the author's practice, The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex goes far beyond HIV concerns, combining a complete education about the safe and pleasurable practices of male-male sexuality with a comprehensive medical volume.

Here are the facts about what you need to know to keep your sex life hot and healthy, including:

The rules of safe anorectal stimulation.

Symptoms to send you running to the doctor.

Foreplay, sex toys, and other accessories.

Viral and nonviral STDs-don't wake up with an unpleasant surprise!

Treatments for impotence and other sexual dysfunctions.

Diseases that can be spread without penetration.

Drugs...relationships...doctors (how to find the right one for you), and much more.

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(Colace), a gel-cap containing an oil that is not absorbed into your system. (So don’t fret about extra pounds.) The oil stays in your digestive tract mixing with your stool so that it slips out easier. This decreases trauma to your hemorrhoids and promotes healing. Plant fiber is an important, although often missing, part of our diet and is crucial in the treatment of most anorectal disorders. The fiber is not absorbed into your system. Instead, it remains in your intestine, where it absorbs

chronic, the long-standing inflammation can cause a small anal tag (a sentinel pile) to form at your anal opening. (See Figure 2.1.) Many men incorrectly attribute their pain and bleeding to the tag, which is the result of the inflammation, not the cause. Usually the fissure can be seen just inside the anal opening. As with thrombosed hemorrhoids, constipating yourself or using laxatives only makes the problem worse. A patient walked into my office demanding surgery for his anal fissure. He

dangerous. *Not all medications in each class cause impotence or failure to ejaculate. The complications often are dose related (increase with higher dosage). This list is meant only as a guide and is by no means complete. CHAPTER 8 Medical Problems of the Male Genitalia— OR THERE’S SOMETHING WRONG DOWN THERE! Even before I pushed through the emergency room doors in the early-morning hours I could hear my patient begging for help. His partner paced outside the curtained cubicle,

top to bottom, then front to back. (See Figure 8.1.) Your testicle should have a uniform consistency. Any hard lumps or irregularities, no matter the size, need to be shown to a doctor. Don’t be afraid of pushing one testicle across to the other side. The two halves of your scrotum are separated by a membrane. Some men worry that they will push their testicle up and out of their scrotum, where it will get stuck in their inguinal canal. Impossible. Your testicle rises and falls with your spermatic

gag reflex (as happens to some stroke victims) often develop terrible pneumonia when food and saliva travel into their lungs (aspiration). Gagging clearly can be suppressed—just look at sword swallowers. Some of it is in our heads, and relaxing during oral sex may go a long way to minimizing your urge to gag. If the very thought of oral sex is a turnoff, but you want to try because it is important to your partner, coat his penis with something delicious to eliminate any musty odors or taste.

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